Wednesday, December 23, 2015

Week 14: Mike vs. Saying Goodbye

Well, it’s over. My semester abroad came to a close just a few short days ago and I left Australia with a suitcase, a duffle bag, a backpack, and treasure trove of memories. As I sit here writing this on a rainy New England night, it’s really hard not to yearn for the sunny shores of the Gold Coast once again.
            My final week in Australia was dominated mostly by, well, finals. I had a paper to write for one class and two exams to take on Wednesday and Thursday. The beginning of my week was free then, while others had exams early, so I spent as much time absorbing the Australian life as I could. I went to the beach a few times, ate at my favorite places, and hung out with my favorite people. Tuesday was our last night at Jupiter’s Casino and because I don’t gamble, it won’t be someplace I miss a whole lot. My exams came and went, they were fine, and then it really started to hit me that I was leaving. Exams gave me a reason to distract myself from the inevitable truth, so with them over, the hours seemed to grow exponentially shorter. I began noticing all of my lasts in Australia: my last meal at the bra (the cafeteria), my last golden gaytime (It’s an Australian ice cream… I didn’t pick the name), my last time seeing Peg-Leg Joe (Our one legged magpie friend who hung around the bra all semester), my last time at the pool, etc. Everyone was feeling it too. I think you would have been hard pressed to find a single person at that school that wanted to leave that country.

Gonna miss this view

            On Thursday, we took our last trip of the semester to Moreton Island, a large sand island off the coast of Brisbane. An hour drive to Brisbane and another hour on the ferry brought us to its sun soaked shores. The government had sunk a bunch of boats right off the island to form an artificial reef so we snorkeled around the wrecks to see some pretty spectacular sea life. We walked around the island a bit, napped on the beach, ran down some massive sand dunes, and then headed back to Bond for our last weekend.

The Moreton Wrecks


            Friday night was our last night out, so we did it up in true Bondie fashion by going to Don’s before getting bussed over to Shooter’s Nightclub. Per usual, it was a blast. Most of the Bentley abroad program was there so we were all over the place and some of us got invited into the VIP box and got some free drinks. Realizing every hour was precious, we decided to stay out all night and catch the sunrise from the Surfer’s Paradise beaches. About 10 people who didn’t go to the club just brought blankets and slept on the beach til sunrise while others, myself included, decided to forgo sleep altogether. We wandered along the beach until the sun rose at 4:30am. It was probably the closest I got to crying. I sniffled. A few times. It was hard not to in the dazzling morning light that I had come to cherish. I think I have actually seen more sunrises in Australia than I have seen in my entire life. Almost every week we were either pulling an all-nighter or waking up ridiculously early. It’s something I will miss. We must have looked like quite a bunch with half of the people in PJs, wrapped up in blankets and the other half in club clothes. Like on my birthday, I decided to also take an early morning swim with Tim and Julia. Still a bit damp, the whole squad loaded onto the morning bus for the short ride back to campus. I took a quick shower at 6am then caught some Z’s before another full day. Four hours was plenty.


            We had to be on our way to the airport at 4am on Sunday so Saturday was our last true day on the continent. With no packing completed yet, I decided to do the responsible thing and go to the beach. I mean, it’s my last day, I can’t not spend it on the beach. It was a relaxing way to go off before the New England winter. I got back to campus afterwards, packed up my stuff, and hung out with the crew for our last night. Our flight was so early that we decided once again to stay up all night. I still slept for about an hour and a half during a movie because I’m a sissy and two back to back all-nighters is a bit out of my league. At around 3am Matt, Tim, and I went to the Bond Bridge to have cigars and look over the campus that had been our home for the past 4 months. It really is a beautiful place.

Bye Bond :'(
We caught our shuttle at 4am and made our way to Brisbane for the last leg of our adventure. We bid Bond a heavy hearted farewell and saw the sunrise appear one last time over the iconic Surfer’s skyline. The long flight home was all that awaited us and as we boarded our plane, I left Australia sad but satisfied. I had accomplished everything I wanted to this semester and did more than I ever thought possible. I jumped out of a plane, dove the Great Barrier Reef, swam with a watersnake, drove 11 hours to Sydney after having our flight cancelled, held a koala, surfed (errr tried to surf) 6 foot waves, white water rafted, followed Frodo's footsteps in Middle Earth, slept on Sunrise Beach, watched the sun rise from Sunrise Beach, spooned a kangaroo, saw a 15 foot tiger shark, hiked up a glacier, drove the Great Ocean Road, sang in front of the Sydney Opera House, went to Oktoberfest in Australia, kayaked with dolphins, slept in a car in the middle of the woods, went to the Australian Open, drove down the 13th most dangerous road in the world, got stuck in a traffic jamb of sheep, saw cave paintings older than the pyramids and so much more that I'm just forgetting! The places I visited and the sights I saw are forever engrained in my memory and those I met while abroad are some of the most genuinely amazing people I have ever known. I have forged friendships that will last forever and even those who I may never see again will always have a place in my heart. With special regards to the Goon Squad (Tim, Matt, Liam, Anna, Courtney, Monika, Julia), I couldn’t have asked for a more adventurous, crazier, or more hilariously dysfunctional group of friends to wander around Australia and New Zealand with. The stories we made will be the ones that I’ll be trying to tell my grandkids, but won’t be able to finish because I’ll be laughing too hard.


            After 18ish (I lost count) hours of flying, I touched down in America, watched the Sunday sunrise again… which is really freaking weird, and embraced the (relative) cold of Boston. I was home.
            These past few days in the States, I’ve gotten a lot of people ask me if I think I’ll be going back to Australia sometime soon. I would love to, I really would. But to every person that asks me, I respond no. Not anytime soon. Australia and New Zealand are my favorite places in the world, hands down, but there is still so much on this planet that I still wish to see. Greece, Austria, South Africa, Switzerland, Belgium, Nepal, Japan, and more are all on my travel list so I honestly couldn’t justify spending the time and money to go back to Australia when so much more is still out there. Like I said before, I am satisfied with my time in Australia. I have no regrets and I’ve done everything I had my heart set on. When I said goodbye to Australia though, it wasn’t goodbye forever. I will make it back there someday in the future. Whether it be when I’m a millionaire business tycoon on my private jet or when I’m an old geezer just looking to dip my toes in the warm Australian water one last time, I will make it back. I know it’s cliché to say they were the best four months of my life so instead I will say that my four months in Australia have helped me to grow into the person I want to become, more than any other period in my life. Is that better? I will truly miss Australia and will cherish all of the memories that I made there. So as Mike vs. Australia comes to a close, I end with the quote that defined my wonderful journey on the opposite side of the globe,


“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” – Mark Twain


Thanks Mark, I couldn’t have said it better myself. 


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